The Punjabi bridal jewellery checklist, ceremony by ceremony

A Punjabi wedding is a series of occasions, each with its own mood, and the jewellery changes with them. Here's a simple way to think about the trousseau, ceremony by ceremony.

Roka and engagement

The first formal step. Something refined rather than heavy: a diamond necklace or a layered pendant, studs or drops, and the engagement ring itself.

Mehendi

Colourful, light and comfortable for a long, lively day. Meenakari chandbalis, floral earrings and a light necklace leave your hands free for the henna.

Sangeet and jaago

An evening for sparkle and movement: a statement diamond or coloured-stone necklace, long earrings, and a cocktail ring.

Chooda ceremony

On the wedding morning, the bride receives her chooda, traditionally from her maternal uncle, and the kaleere are tied to it. Plan your bangles and kadas so they sit well alongside the chooda.

Anand Karaj or pheras

The heart of the trousseau. Most brides choose a full polki or kundan set: a choker and a longer rani haar, maang tikka or passa, a nath, earrings and haathphool.

Reception

Often a change of mood: a lighter polki or diamond set that works with an evening outfit.

When to start

• Three to six months before the wedding is ideal.
• Made-to-order polki can take several weeks, and fittings take time.
• Book a bridal consultation, and bring your outfits or swatches if you can.
• Planning from abroad? Shortlist on a live video viewing, then see everything in person when you arrive.